Good afternoon, everyone!!!
I know it has been awhile and believe me some days I would rather be blogging. But, of course I've been writing, writing, writing, amongst other things.
I figured out last Monday that my chosen story for NaNoWriMo is not going to be long enough. I'm more than 3/4 of the way through only to realize this will be a novella. So, my brain kicked in and decided it should also work on one of the historical romances to get my word count where it needs to be for this month :) So, write, write, write, I've been doing along with a few other things.
Last week we also decided to go ahead and start on my kitchen. The pic below is what it looked like Tuesday evening. We ripped up carpet, we took out cabinets, I got to use a sledge hammer :) By Thursday night I had cabinets back in, countertops, none of which are fastened down yet, and a new floor :) Next time hubby's home (next week) we're finishing up what we can and I'm good with that :)
Of course, I've been reading with the granddaughter here and there. They had a short week last week so we didn't have reading. Her mom and I have been coming up with new and exciting books for her as well. Things we both enjoyed as kids, we're hoping she'll enjoy too.
I hit up a flea market with my sister, uncle, and parents yesterday afternoon. It boggles the mind when your sister's text reads, "Hey, get dressed, we're coming to get you." How in the hell did she know I wasn't dressed, LOL. Her answer was simple, she hadn't got dressed yet, LOL.
We had a nice Thanksgiving at my sister's house again this year. I'm doing a big dinner next time hubby's home so all the kids and grandkids can come over to decorate the Christmas tree. I'm excited to cook in my new kitchen :)
A few other things that come to mind that have been weighing heavy on my heart recently is self worth. I've seen so many young ladies who've for one reason or another have lost their self worth.
Something I've learned over the past several months is compassion. Something I am mentally taking note of and how it affects my life and how I can use it in other aspects of my life.
Ladies, self worth is something that is easily taken away from us as women. We get so caught up in making others feel good about themselves that we forget to take care of ourselves and realize that taking care of ourselves is a priority. If we are on top of our game, if we push the mark to make ourselves the best person we can be, then it plays out in the world around us.
Don't ever belittle yourself for someone else. People will put you down to bring you down to their level, not because you aren't worthy of being on top, but because they can't handle seeing you on top. If someone truly loves you, they will be happy for you in all you do and accomplish in this life.
I'm not saying people don't argue and fight. That's part of life. But, I am saying don't let those arguments and fights bring you down to a level you don't believe you deserve happiness. Everyone deserves to be happy in their own right.
It's easy to get caught up in the trap of making excuses for the other person and their behavior. Don't do it. I know that sounds harsh, but just don't. We each are responsible for how we treat other human beings. If an excuse needs to be made, make the other person responsible for explaining their behavior. When you have to think about what you've done then you have to own what you've done.
There are so many beautiful women out there that allow too many to shove them down in the mud, until their drowning in their own misery. They don't see themselves through all the opinions of others. It breaks my heart.
Sometimes we need just one person to believe in us. Just that one person to say, "That's not how I see you." For us to begin to think, "Maybe, just maybe I am worthy."
Sometimes choosing your life means letting go of what weighs you down. It's damn hard to do, but sometimes it is something that must happen to save yourself, to start building your self esteem again. To allow you to become who you need to be in your life.
Then there is patience. Something I learn every day. Sometimes my patience is very short, other times, I surprise myself and wonder where in the hell did that come from.
Understanding. Another aspect of life I have been learning this year. Understanding what I cannot wrap my brain around to understand. Sometimes understanding is just letting go of preconceived ideas and just being. Letting things fall where they may.
So, anyway, this is where I've been over the last month. I'm hoping to accomplish my goals and push that mark over the next four days. Wish me luck....
Everyone have a lovely evening!!!
Blessings to all!!!
I know it has been awhile and believe me some days I would rather be blogging. But, of course I've been writing, writing, writing, amongst other things.
I figured out last Monday that my chosen story for NaNoWriMo is not going to be long enough. I'm more than 3/4 of the way through only to realize this will be a novella. So, my brain kicked in and decided it should also work on one of the historical romances to get my word count where it needs to be for this month :) So, write, write, write, I've been doing along with a few other things.
Last week we also decided to go ahead and start on my kitchen. The pic below is what it looked like Tuesday evening. We ripped up carpet, we took out cabinets, I got to use a sledge hammer :) By Thursday night I had cabinets back in, countertops, none of which are fastened down yet, and a new floor :) Next time hubby's home (next week) we're finishing up what we can and I'm good with that :)
Of course, I've been reading with the granddaughter here and there. They had a short week last week so we didn't have reading. Her mom and I have been coming up with new and exciting books for her as well. Things we both enjoyed as kids, we're hoping she'll enjoy too.
I hit up a flea market with my sister, uncle, and parents yesterday afternoon. It boggles the mind when your sister's text reads, "Hey, get dressed, we're coming to get you." How in the hell did she know I wasn't dressed, LOL. Her answer was simple, she hadn't got dressed yet, LOL.
We had a nice Thanksgiving at my sister's house again this year. I'm doing a big dinner next time hubby's home so all the kids and grandkids can come over to decorate the Christmas tree. I'm excited to cook in my new kitchen :)
A few other things that come to mind that have been weighing heavy on my heart recently is self worth. I've seen so many young ladies who've for one reason or another have lost their self worth.
Something I've learned over the past several months is compassion. Something I am mentally taking note of and how it affects my life and how I can use it in other aspects of my life.
Ladies, self worth is something that is easily taken away from us as women. We get so caught up in making others feel good about themselves that we forget to take care of ourselves and realize that taking care of ourselves is a priority. If we are on top of our game, if we push the mark to make ourselves the best person we can be, then it plays out in the world around us.
Don't ever belittle yourself for someone else. People will put you down to bring you down to their level, not because you aren't worthy of being on top, but because they can't handle seeing you on top. If someone truly loves you, they will be happy for you in all you do and accomplish in this life.
I'm not saying people don't argue and fight. That's part of life. But, I am saying don't let those arguments and fights bring you down to a level you don't believe you deserve happiness. Everyone deserves to be happy in their own right.
It's easy to get caught up in the trap of making excuses for the other person and their behavior. Don't do it. I know that sounds harsh, but just don't. We each are responsible for how we treat other human beings. If an excuse needs to be made, make the other person responsible for explaining their behavior. When you have to think about what you've done then you have to own what you've done.
There are so many beautiful women out there that allow too many to shove them down in the mud, until their drowning in their own misery. They don't see themselves through all the opinions of others. It breaks my heart.
Sometimes we need just one person to believe in us. Just that one person to say, "That's not how I see you." For us to begin to think, "Maybe, just maybe I am worthy."
Sometimes choosing your life means letting go of what weighs you down. It's damn hard to do, but sometimes it is something that must happen to save yourself, to start building your self esteem again. To allow you to become who you need to be in your life.
Then there is patience. Something I learn every day. Sometimes my patience is very short, other times, I surprise myself and wonder where in the hell did that come from.
Understanding. Another aspect of life I have been learning this year. Understanding what I cannot wrap my brain around to understand. Sometimes understanding is just letting go of preconceived ideas and just being. Letting things fall where they may.
So, anyway, this is where I've been over the last month. I'm hoping to accomplish my goals and push that mark over the next four days. Wish me luck....
Everyone have a lovely evening!!!
Blessings to all!!!